Reserve Judgement

There are always three sides to every story. The primary – the secondary and the non-vested outsiders’ point of view. Maturity is measured in the ability to listen and hear the other party even if you agree to disagree.

Are you sure you know what the truth is – do you have the right to judge? “First, remove the beam out of your own eye, and then you can see clearly to remove the speck out of your brother's eye.”

We are all, to some degree, guilty of judging others’ choices and behaviour. What I know for sure is that we do NOT know what is really going on in other peoples’ lives. Feeling judged is a slippery slope – it might only be your perception.

Questioning if I am doing enough is my personal challenge at this present time in my life. Keeping in mind: self-preservation – time challenges – priority responsibilities and so many other factors. My conclusion: I do what I can and then let go and let God.

Life is a great leveller. We reap what we sow. The level of hurt we inflict will return where we feel it the most. Everyone is doing the best that they know how. May you never need to experience the living hell on earth as the affected individual or the bystander of mental health.

There but for the Grace of God go I…

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Life Coaching is a talk therapy with a practical outcome approach. Gaining perspective about who we are because of where we come from, is liberating. Neuro Linguistics presents us with choices to change that which negatively impacts our life. It takes courage to do The Work on yourself. It is not a sign of weakness, instead it shows strength of character.